About

I’m a 38-year-old wife and mother of two young girls who in July 2013 was diagnosed with Stage IV colon cancer. This is me writing about living with that diagnosis.

If you are curious about the details of my diagnosis, treatment and medical status, you should be able to quickly glean that information by clicking on the appropriate category (as listed on the right sidebar), which will bring you to the relevant posts. However, as with any chronic illness, there is not much to say about the medical side of things on an ongoing basis. Patience is the name of the game as I undergo treatment and wait for the next scan and blood tests. In the meantime, I ride the emotional roller coaster that is life with cancer. Therefore, most of my blog posts are musings about and reflections on life, family, love, faith, strength and all the other intangibles that make living at once exhilarating and terrifying, I’ve listed on a separate page my favorite of those posts (click here), the ones that I reread from time to time when the voices in my head become too loud and the fear has a vice grip on my throat. My hope is that you can find some solace in those musings and reflections too.

This article, published in an online medical journal, provides a good outline of my story and my life philosophy.

15 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Veronica
    Aug 20, 2013 @ 02:13:16

    I’m glad you started writing this blog though the circumstances are difficult. I’ve always loved your writing. Thank you for the updates, the details, for sharing your feelings, the highs and lows, and with such honesty, as usual. I hope that writing brings strength and solace. And I have no doubt that your girls will always know how amazing their mother is, and I believe you’ll be there to show them, now and for a long time to come.

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  2. julielyyip
    Aug 20, 2013 @ 13:31:31

    Thank you, V, for reading, caring and believing.

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  3. Sara
    Sep 20, 2013 @ 07:26:27

    Hi Julie
    Thank you for writing this. I look forward to reading more. I really find it helpful when people articulate their feelings, as it resonates with others.
    My mom is living with cancer. Three of us in the family have attended free weekly groups at Gilda’s Club. You and your partner may want to check it out if you haven’t yet.
    I wish you the best on this journey. Your love shines bright.
    Truly,
    Sara

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  4. Sara
    Sep 23, 2013 @ 20:37:19

    Great!
    Keep writing!

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  5. Jesse Brill
    Oct 11, 2013 @ 08:39:29

    Julie,

    I am so glad and thankful that Broc has shared your inspiring blogs with so many of us. You are touching a lot of people.
    Keep on fighting–and writing!

    Jesse Brill

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  6. SC Surmeli
    Oct 11, 2013 @ 08:41:38

    Thank you for sharing as you sharing some of what you are going through. (Thanks to Broc R for sending me here) It is inspiring and I send you what energy and strength I can from here. My father-in-law battles cancer, and I am sharing your posts with him. Peace, Sa

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  7. barbarablackford
    Oct 11, 2013 @ 14:11:41

    Julie:

    I am so sorry to learn what you are going through. Thank you for writing about it and sharing. You will be in my thoughts. Keep fighting and inspiring!

    And you have my number if you what to talk or just hear my nasal southern accent! Use it anytime!

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  8. brocromanek
    Oct 11, 2013 @ 14:53:17

    Julie, Your words have inspired countless others and we are thankful for you having the strength and wisdom to share your difficult journey with us.

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  9. Michelle Thaler
    Oct 17, 2013 @ 13:56:18

    Hi Julie: I came across your blog through the Fort Green parent group. Your fight is courageous and extremely well worded.
    I wish you all the best in this journey towards full recover; which to me, is a certainty !
    Best,
    Michelle

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  10. Axis Mundi
    Nov 07, 2013 @ 09:46:48

    Some great inspiration on this blog, I wish you all the best on your journey and that the Universe provide you with the strength you need 🙂

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  11. cindy
    Nov 23, 2013 @ 11:51:22

    Julie it was so refreshing to meet you in DC. So many of us want to put words to what we went through or are still going through in our cancer journey. Thank you for doing so. And though each of our stories may be a bit different there is so much commonality between all of them. It’s a sisterhood that we would not choose but then I would not have met you. I look forward to continuing reading more of your writings.

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    • julielyyip
      Nov 23, 2013 @ 21:46:12

      Cindy, it was wonderful meeting you as well. I hope our paths cross again soon. I couldn’t agree more about the commonality that exists among us. It’s an unexpected bond and friendship that holds us together indeed.

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  12. Peggy Hernandez
    Dec 16, 2013 @ 16:32:47

    Dear Julie,
    Thank you for writing this blog. I’m a colorectal cancer survivor diagnosed at age 29. I also have two girls. I am cancer free 3 years now. I find your blog inspiring and uplifting. Fight the good fight and keep your spirits high. I take life one day at a time. The way you express yourself through the blog is touching. Again thank you for sharing part of your life with your readers. Merry Christmas!

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  13. Stephanie Hoaglund
    Dec 17, 2013 @ 14:54:11

    HI Julie

    My husband was diagnosed with colon cancer at 37 back in 2008. I kept a blog about the experience http://colonc-thejourney.blogspot.com/ –you may find some information or support in the pages that I wrote. I also had young kids at the time.

    I am happy to report we hit our five year milestone this past summer — and although the cancer is gone, cancer never leaves our lives. It filters everything we do as a family- day in and day out – so I can relate to your situation and current experience.

    I will continue to follow your journey and send good vibes.

    steph hoaglund
    livefitandsore.com

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